like with what you said about creativity & daemon/skill. maybe sex has sort of become more like a sport, or yoga, as well as a commercial aid, or void avoidance as you describe, than as means of being human, wtf that is. pay attention to the voice of the sex daemon ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I agree! There's a great book by a philosopher/therapist I love, Rollo May, called Love and Will. He talks about exactly that--the change from sex as connection to sport, where the person becomes more focused on themselves and their "technique" than on the other person.
like with what you said about creativity & daemon/skill. maybe sex has sort of become more like a sport, or yoga, as well as a commercial aid, or void avoidance as you describe, than as means of being human, wtf that is. pay attention to the voice of the sex daemon ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I agree! There's a great book by a philosopher/therapist I love, Rollo May, called Love and Will. He talks about exactly that--the change from sex as connection to sport, where the person becomes more focused on themselves and their "technique" than on the other person.